Making Friends
I've been stressed over real life shit.
And corresponding with a potential buddy via alt.com. Adultfriendfinder has alot of guys who want to be buddies. Maybe they truly want to be FWBs. But, and I'm not judging, a great number of older white men are visiting my profile and e-mailing me. And, they're not what I'm looking for sexually. I just get the idea that I'm being exoticized, as well as eroticized, based upon my melanin, not my potential abilities. And I'm not so cool with that. I mean, why do white men want to be dommed by a Black woman? The personal is political. It all seems too stereotypical to me. "Why we gotta be ballbusters, man?"
Anywho. I've been corresponding with one guy, and another just popped up, but while he seems kinky, I'm thinking wild teddy grahams moreso than "atame'". But his profile was intriguing, "for a white guy," LOL. He was baldly emphasizing a FWB mindset, but enthusiastically so. The main problem I have, and, yes, rv, there are always problems, is distance. I mean, driving 45 minutes to get broken off is not the hotness.
Yes, I'm idly looking at hotels midway between the two cities. Don't start with me.
And corresponding with a potential buddy via alt.com. Adultfriendfinder has alot of guys who want to be buddies. Maybe they truly want to be FWBs. But, and I'm not judging, a great number of older white men are visiting my profile and e-mailing me. And, they're not what I'm looking for sexually. I just get the idea that I'm being exoticized, as well as eroticized, based upon my melanin, not my potential abilities. And I'm not so cool with that. I mean, why do white men want to be dommed by a Black woman? The personal is political. It all seems too stereotypical to me. "Why we gotta be ballbusters, man?"
Anywho. I've been corresponding with one guy, and another just popped up, but while he seems kinky, I'm thinking wild teddy grahams moreso than "atame'". But his profile was intriguing, "for a white guy," LOL. He was baldly emphasizing a FWB mindset, but enthusiastically so. The main problem I have, and, yes, rv, there are always problems, is distance. I mean, driving 45 minutes to get broken off is not the hotness.
Yes, I'm idly looking at hotels midway between the two cities. Don't start with me.
posted by Ms. Sidra at 14:18
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hey i can't say there isn't always a problem, that's life unfortunately, do what you want kid, my way only works for me lol
yes, dear, I know.
I just have to keep reminding myself.
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